Today, I'd like to share a personal practice that has made a difference in my life and helped my family, friends, and colleagues. I've written about the power of gratitude before, and now I want to take it a step further with an engaging and straightforward activity.
This practice, known as "Rose, Thorn, and Bud," first came into my life at Autodesk. The Luma Institute introduced us, and we used it for product development. According to the Luma Institute, this practice has roots in the Boy Scouts (though I was never one myself).
So, what exactly is "Rose, Thorn, and Bud?" It's a simple framework that encourages reflection and gratitude:
Our household has made it a tradition to reflect during dinner. Our five-year-old, Frances, is often enthusiastic about going first! We even invite guests to take part, who are often delighted to join in.
But why practice gratitude and reflection daily with your family? Well, there are a couple of reasons.
First, the concept of gratitude becomes normalized. When my kids are having a bad day, I can prompt them with a rose/thorn/bud to nudge their mindset toward the positive.
Second, this framework serves as training wheels for processing emotions. Asking a young child about their day usually yields little information. This activity simplifies emotional expression, helping them unpack their feelings.
Here are some extensions to consider:
So, try "Rose, Thorn, Bud" and see how it can transform your interactions and emotional awareness. It's a simple yet powerful way to practice reflection, nurture connections, and foster growth. Happy sharing!
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